What does NOT facilitate the stereotyping of neurodivergent people as being inherently abusive and the stigmatization of our relationships with other people:

People talking about abusive dynamics in fiction in order to facilitate a better understanding of abuse culture within fandom.

What DOES facilitate the stereotyping of neurodivergent people as being inherently abusive and the stigmatization of our relationships with other people:

TELEVISION WRITERS who cannot seem to write a neurodivergent character who isn’t an abusive dickwad (or a cowering doormat victim).

Fans who use neurodivergence as a way of rationalizing/excusing a character’s abusive behaviors, and shutting down conversations about abuse culture.

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