December 2011
poopeatoe replied to your post: poopeatoe replied to your post: my day today jw if…
i will make you baked mac n’ cheese, and for me i will make the kind out of the box and add tuna and peas. i do that on bad days too. and we will have cheeseburgers. and then we will never poop again.
Aww, that sounds like an excellent way to spend an evening. <3
Comfort food is the best. Comfort...
poopeatoe replied to your post: my day today
jw if you eat cheeseburgers after panic attacks, or if you just happened to have cheeseburgers. cheeseburgers for whatever weird reason help my emotional state like no other
Cheeseburgers are some of my favorite comfort food. I don’t always eat them after panic attacks, but if I’ve had a shitty day/week or whatever, and I want to treat...
so tired
Of white, straight, etc, etc folks who want everyone to know how radikewl and progressive they are
but aren’t willing to actually put in the work of owning up to their fucked up shit, past & present, and aren’t willing to humble themselves long enough to offer even the most basic fucking apology to people they’ve hurt, past & present, with their fucked up shit.
...
“ALL FEMINISTS HATE DA MENZ”
– People who don’t know shit about feminism (via anticapitalist)
LOL, this is coming from anticapitalist, the same dude who once told me that it would be my fault if I was raped b/c I can’t defend myself due to my disability. I LOVE TUMBLR /sarcasm.
(via megachiropteran)
I can’t tell you how...
I am so sick of this idea that men are...
icewomancometh:
partysoft:
notaiden:
[SNIP B/C I CAN]
lol do you think those sitcoms are written by women, produced by women, approved for the network by women, etc.? the perpetuators of this stereotype are men, and they do have something to gain from it. they get an excuse to point to when they want a woman to do that for them - “oh, I would do it, but I just can’t! I don’t know how like...
therapsida asked: Hey, I followed you for oblique references to grunge, and now I'm getting all this good intersectional feminist stuff?? FALSE ADVERTISING #jkiactuallyloveit #iwouldlikemoregrungethojustsaying #howboutdemscreamingtrees
dating danger sense, cont'd
jayoublie:
In October I had a one-night stand with a guy and was about to go back for more, and then he starts telling me about “BDSM protocols” and how I should shave and what kind of cologne to use and that he’s calling me “boy” whether I like it or not. And I’m all, y’know, maybe he’s too controlling!
After agonizing over it for a while, I tell him I don’t want seconds. He blows up on me,...
2012 is gonna be my year
So help me, yes it is.
#positive self talk #for once
GOOD NEWS EVERYONE
One of the anthologies I submitted to today accepted my submission already! That was fast. Career things are happening, yesyesyes!
my day today
-perfunctory attempt at cleaning up apartment; end up on couch, reading American Splendor.
-Pokemon.
-Listen to podcast about mental illness, trauma and creativity.
-Tentative work on book project. Finish a couple panels. Fuck up a third panel, quit for the day.
-Make pitches to two upcoming anthologies.
-Panic attack.
-Cheeseburgers.
sweeping the living room
pile of glitter on the floor.
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Mental Illness Happy Hour →
Comedians, artists, etc talk about their experiences with mental illness, trauma, addiction, etc.
I have been looking for something like this since forever! SO STOKED TO LISTEN TO THIS.
“Check your large bathtub privilege”
– missvoltairine (via istealforksfromrestaurants)
Don’t make fun you guys large bathtub privilege is a serious thing
All my life I’ve been prevented from having the hot bathtub sex I wanted to have because I’ve never lived in a place with a big bathtub. SOMETIMES ALL I HAD WAS A...
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nice guy syndrome
is just as creepy coming from aces as it is coming from skeezy guys who just want to manipulate someone into fucking them.
JUST AS CREEPY. Got it? Just because your end goal isn’t sex doesn’t mean what you’re doing isn’t manipulative and rooted in a massive entitlement complex. Don’t do that shit! Your queerplatonic zucchini/squish/whatever the term is now...
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confession
I don’t like/get Dr. Who.
Also, I find Sherlock annoying.
LET THE UNFOLLOWINGS COMMENCE
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dez-ray: The people killed at Wounded Knee... →
badlandspolaroid:
“Indians killed at Wounded Knee, December 29, 1890”
(From “The Wounded Knee Interviews Of Eli S. Ricker”; p. 176-178) 1. Chief Big Foot 2. Mrs. Big Foot 3. Horned Cloud 4. Mrs. Horned Cloud 5. William Horned Cloud, son 6. Sherman Horned Cloud, son 7. Pretty…
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“Some people say “I’m sorry to say” when they mean “I am actually totally stoked...”
– Master of Reality-John Darnielle (via moarghan)
fuck me
Time to seriously consider never drinking again.
Anonymous asked: antidepressants can (might) make you grind your teeth when you sleep. It's more like a squeezing, which can crack the teeth, needing root canals and tooth replacement a few years later. Trust me, this happened to me. If I hadn't had a dental plan at the time, and hadn't been making good money, it would have been worse that it was. At it was, the pain of having nerves ground out was...
Hey maybe this is something the internet can help...
Dear tumblr,
My sweetheart, A, grinds his teeth really hard in his sleep. Like, REALLY HARD. It sounds like he’s chewing gravel. It can’t be good. Sometimes the noise of it wakes me up in the night.
Even with his student health plan, seeing a dentist to get him fitted for a mouth guard is more than we can afford. Do any of y’all have any ways of dealing with this kind of thing?...
@regazzadilupo
anedumacation:
that’s definitely true: there are definite reasons why an honest portrayal of sadness isn’t something one wants to see.
But you know what I’d REALLY like to see? A funny movie about depression, that didn’t skimp on the depression.
Something absolutely rife with gallows humor. I can still find shit to laugh about when I’m really, really sad — I know not everyone reacts this way,...
Point Foundation Scholarships: for LGBTQIAAP+... →
closetospring:
newwavefeminism:
submission from theatricalmoho:
Description of purpose: “Point Foundation provides financial support, mentoring, leadership training and hope to meritorious students who are marginalized due to sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression.” If you are a student in need of scholarship money for a 4-year college or grad school, check out Point...
waderudy:
i hate when i start a show i like and it’s like OH GREAT NOW I GOTTA BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL THESE FEELS
oh god it’s me
I love how Miyazaki films tend to have conflicts that are resolved by people just being reasonable.
Ponyo: all the adults get together and realize that they have Ponyo’s best interests at heart, devise a way to facilitate/support Ponyo coming to her own conclusions about what she wants/needs right now.
Kiki’s Delivery Service: Kiki has a depressive episode, gets through it, realizes...
Anonymous asked: checking your blog every morning makes my day just a little step nicer. I'm usually really shy about ask boxes and starting conversations but I thought I would throw that out there. I hope you're taking care of yourself and I hope today is nice to you.
well
so much for tumblr today. A+ job creepin’ on my tumblr, cuntflavor, and posting rape threats against me on your own blog. Nice.
Listen, though, as much as I’d love to keep engaging in this despite the churning, nauseous pain in my stomach and the uncontrollable shaking and cold sweats, I’ve got shit to do. So allow me to do you the favor of making this clear. DO NOT EVER CONTACT...
two things
1. Thanks to everyone who sent me nice, supportive messages last night, especially the anons. I really like being able to have anon enabled on this blog, because I get some really interesting questions/requests for writing on specific subjects/etc, and I feel like it makes me a better, more accountable writer. I was worrying about maybe having to disable anon asks the other day, but then...
“In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible...”
– Albert Camus (via wordpainting
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no, i actually can't
I can’t be friends, even internet-friends, even tumblr-friends, with someone who condones another person sending people to harass me and then laughing about it and saying that I “fucked with the wrong person, tee hee hee”.
If you are okay with this shit we can’t be friends, sorry. You can still follow me but I will block you. I just have to draw the line somewhere, and I...
words i hate, part 3:
freibiergesicht:
rumblesketch:
If I never see the word “problematic” again it will be too soon.
i literally cannot write earnestly without using it
i have tried and i can’t figure out how
i resort to using it in demi-italics in my brain to shield myself from embarrassment
My favorite prof in all the world uses the term “problematize” completely earnestly/unironically and I...
lol
yeah cuntflavor you keep talking shit about me and sending anons over to troll my tumblr.
But it’s everyone who disagrees with you who’s being a bully. Right.
Dear stupid middle-classers who think that...
dumbthingswhitepplsay:
You realize that if you’re actually poor and have a lot of extraneous home obligations to keep food in your mouth and a roof over your and your family’s head that other not-poor people don’t have, you will probably have less “work” that is considered “deserving” by college boards, right?
K.
Thx.
minaisbored said: i just learned a person can get the equivalent of a seeing eye dog pass for psychological ailments so yeah, carte blanche to take one’s dog anywhere as a “companion.” i want to figure out how to get this. does it make me a bad person? perhaps.
EDIT: using...
somewhat drunk and laughing my ass off over this...
maevele:
Freibiergesicht: Hey Guys
dumbthingswhitepplsay:
maevele:
dumbthingswhitepplsay:
maevele:
bb-goose:
freibiergesicht:
I finally found the worst SJWs on Tumblr. Like here I was just bumbling around the Tumblr, thinking that some Aces and whatnot were the worst of it.
But then I started following that disability discussion and looking at the ppl’s Tumblrs and the other...
Anonymous asked: Don't bother with cunty. If the world doesn't revolve around her and her problems, then it's always because "you're privileged and need to shut the fuck up." She's just a wolf in sheep's clothing. Ignore her. (Whatever your chronic illness is, I wish you the best of luck in dealing with it.)
cuntflavor:
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As a matter of fact I actually do know what it’s like to feel invalidated, erased, and judged. It feels a lot like someone without a chronic illness barging into a discussion that was (while heated and messed up on a lot of levels) primarily taking place among people with chronic illnesses and throwing around a bunch of prescriptivistic stuff about how none of us...
Ugh and now they’re getting massive outpourings of support, talking about how mean people are “invalidating” them and clearly we don’t know what it’s like to be “invalidated”
I just.
I have a chronic illness that causes me pretty regular extreme pain and it sucks. I’m terrified of it and I hate it.
And my partner has a seizure disorder...
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i just can't with tumblr sj tonight
I have many thoughts and ~feelings~ on the latest discussion re: disabilities - bad or not? (mostly they boil down to “shit’s more complicated than that okay you can respect peoples’ identities and advocate for a better social understanding of disability WITHOUT erasing the experiences of anyone whose disability doesn’t fit neatly into a social model so why don’t we...
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heart of my own: srsly tho →
inkstainedqueer:
missvoltairine:
this is the nicest holiday/christmas-time i’ve had in a while.
we’ve got enough to have a nice big dinner, exchange some thoughtful little gifties, have some drinks, and we’re not overworked or stressed out about everything. Just sitting around, reading old comics, messing around on the internet,…
my holidays will look like this one day.
when I was your...
